Rj Russo married Mariah Pulver at The Church of Jusus Christ of Latter Days Saints Orlando Temple July 20th 2013. What a beautiful family !

Thank you !

Thank you everyone so much for writing our son on his Mission, for supporting and encouraging him to accomplish such hard job. RJ has been on a greatest Journey, there he has learned much about life, people, other cultures , the human heart and most of all, he  learned how much God loves each one of us.
RJ has been writing so many beautiful letters to us, I am sorry I did not share a lot of them on his blog, he asked me to keep it private.
I say , he is a beautiful soul with so much love inside, I am so proud of him for sharing his love with others and for working so hard to bring some light to others who has been living in such dark places in their hearts. I am proud of him for planting so many seeds of love on his Mission. Someday they will grow and lives will be forever changed just like mine was so many years ago.
I ask you, friends, at this point and time, no letters should be sent to Elder Russo, because he is coming home!!! 
We love you all, we are forever thankful for all the prayers and letters and most of all, your LOVE.
Stella Russo

Letter from Elder Russo's Mission President

 

 

Hello from the Jefferies in Clermont-Ferrand,

 

Tomorrow is P-Day here in the land of 1,000+ cheeses and your sons may not be able to get to a computer to write to you.  Transfers were announced Friday, and they are both heading to Lyon to pick up new companions.  Elder Russo will be teamed with a "two-transfer" missionary (fairly new) who speaks Spanish on the side.  This is sort of exactly what our Bishop Allanic has been hoping for.  He has asked the Mission President and the Stake President for at least one missionary who can speak Spanish, to stay with us for two transfers to do a triage operation.... the ward is slowly shrinking in size as nearly all the new baptisees from the past 3 years are either refugees or students who do not stay here more than a few months.  And... they have largely been young men as the Elders seem to avoid teaching pretty young ladies.     For this reason, many times there are only young adult males at Soiree Familliale.  Can you imagine all the testosterone at les soirees familliales (family home evening for the young adults at the church) where all the young men play a mass ping-pong game around an improvised table?  I'll post some recent videos for you to look at on my Facebook site.  If you want to see them, just "friend" me:  Jane Jefferies (missionary application photo of my companion & me - for ID if there are more of the same name).

 

It looks like Elder Russo will "die" here in Clermont-Ferrand.  That's the strange language of the Elders.  When they come to their mission they are "born." and their first companion, their trainer, is called their "Father."  As they near the end of their mission they say an Elder is "growing old," and when they ship out for home.... sigh.... it's akin to "dying." So, Elder Russo, the athletic & competitive, will be here for the next six weeks with his new young companion, and then he will return to that mortal family who gave him life.

 

As for Elder Smith, who reminds me of a combination of Joseph Smith (his stature) and Brigham Young (his wisdom), is saying good-by to us today here in this Massif Central region, a cold, and sometimes snowy land, to head to Lyon on the train tomorrow morning with Elder Russo at 8:30 am.  There our two stalwart Elders will meet their new companions, and Elder Russo will return around 5:30 pm while Elder Smith will get his new trainee and depart for the south... the home of one of our Young Adults, and also the home of our Eveque Allanic.  If you don't hear from him tomorrow, Smith Family, write back to me and I'll tell you where he has gone.  We will miss  him a lot.  One good thing about his going, is that he has resisted buying a thick wool coat and has shivered a bit through the coldest days of winter... but now, spring is coming and he is heading south.  He will be fine!  

 

 

It's the Bishop we worry about now.  He is a young man, just 37 years old with all the responsibility of first a branch and now this ward with its list of nearly 300 members... most of which have moved away or died. We have only 97 known active people, and most of them are well over the median age for life.  We just learned that Bishop Allanic has a fibrillating heart.  The first treatments, after a few years of medication, were  yesterday in a clinic.  The procedure  did not resolve the problem.  The medics threaded a catheter  up a vein from his leg to his heart and he was given some kind of electrical treatment three times to attempt to reset the control region of his heart.  And it had no effect!  I wonder if the stress of managing the ward and his business is making the problem critical?  He's an osteopathic physician who works alone and manages everything... and the landlord of his building has other plans for Bishop Allanic's doctor's office and treatment room as he plans NOT to renew the doctor's lease in September. 

 

We are trying to take some of the pressure off.  Our task is to locate the missing members and ship off their records either to the genealogy vaults or to the ward of their new residence.  When we are finished, our young Bishop will have a better chance to properly manage home teaching and visiting teaching as he ministers to the needs of his actual ward members.  As it is, the ward grows continually smaller.  Baptisms among the student population just get our hopes up until the semester is over and the students depart.

 

THAT's why the Bishop needs a Spanish-speaking missionary for just two transfers.  He's been begging for one for many months, now, and he's had a bit of a time getting some of the Elders to understand the plan.  Because the stalwart ward members are all aging rapidly, and because we have very few families and only 7 children off-and-on in the primary, and because the three young families with children are all moving away this year, the ward is very close to returning to Branch Status.  The Bishop's inspiration involved taking advantage of the most recent wave of immigrants from Spain which happened due to a poisonous political atmosphere in Spain several years ago.  Since these people are still humble people, as they do not qualify for the national social security doles, they turn to God for guidance... like the people that Alma and Ammon worked with in the Book of Mormon times.  AND their children are rapidly approaching young adulthood... the time when they will choose to either become one with the national culture or to embrace their parents' religious values. 

 

"Upon such a full sea are we now afloat" and if we can take advantage of it by having the missionaries seeking out these Spanish/French-speaking families now, we may both save them and save the Wardby buffing up the number of actual resident families.  As the Bishop says, "In these times of change, we must change how we work."  He would also like to see the location of missionary apartments change every five years to give different neighborhoods better exposure to our Elders and , hopefully, Sisters.  As the official Clermont-Ferrand lobbyist to President Roney, I am looking forward to the 70 new missionaries that are destined for the France Lyon mission when the 18-year old Elders and 19-year-old Sister Missionaries arrive!  He has said he would give us another team of missionaries.

 

I will wish you well as I turn back to my missionary projects.... but first some photos!  Check the attachments   The Elders are posing with Sister Patricia Hughes, and Englishwoman who lives out in the country... she makes "teddy bears" out of amazing fabrics.  The Elders left so quickly after the services today that I was not able to properly immortalize them with my camera.  Elder Jefferies and I may see them off in the morning.  If so, I'll try for better photos for you then.

 

Regards,

 

Something sweet for Elder Russo's momma 11/20/12

Dear Mother,

 

Happy Birthday!!!!

 

Ive decided that because i am too far away, and that im broke, and that the best presents are the ones from the heart so i just want to say thank you.

 

thank you for everything that you have done for me in my life, thank you for your nice and kind love that you have shown towards me my whole life, constantly loveing me when i mess up, always protecting me from the evils of the world, and from chores from dad :). Thank you for teaching me how to be a son of God, thank you for teaching me how to walk in the light, even though i have made mistakes in my life you were there of course with dad but you were there and you helped me get over my problems and forget about them and become a better person, thanks to you and the things you have taught me i have been prepared very well for my journey in life until this moment, i was reading my Patriarchal blessing telling me that Heavenly father sent me to you and dad for a reason, and boy how grateful i am to the Opportunity i have to be your son!! Mom you have and will have an everlasting effect on me for the rest of my life, im proud to be called a momma's boy, because like the 2000 stripling warriors, they were taught by there righteous mothers and they were protected because of their mothers, I love you mom and you are the best Mother in the world, the most knd, the most loving, the most understanding, the most funny, the strongest, and Im counting my blessing and mom you are deffinatly the best one :)

 

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM AND I HOPE YOU HAVE A GOOD ONE!!

 

Couple of little updates with Elder Russo's Mission 10/23/12

Here a couple of little notes from Elder Russo..sorry I am a little late with updating his blog....Elder Russo has been moving a lot this past couple months...he just moved again this last weekend to Vitrolles, France....small town south of France, not much there......silly boy has almost given away all of his clothing to someone in need.I guess he toked after his mom in this department.

Hey Mom!!!

I don't know why I'm not in the latest one, i think we were supposed to send pictures but i never knew where to send them, and yeah i moved again!! I'm kinda sad that i left Montpelier so quickly, its an awesome city and now im in this small city again, or better yet HUGE with small transport! but i will have fun here, we have a really nice apartment, no food though lol I'm waiting for money to go back into my mission account so we have to duke it our for a few days....

Im doing overall, noting really new happening, we met a lot of people and engaged someone to baptism the last week i was there, so for the moment i have nothing to update about here, Vitrolles, but hopefully soon i will have something!!

Ha ha poor Gabi, how did she overdose on cup cakes lol?? that doesn't make any sense, but poor thing, i hope it was too bad for her, or you lol, and how was that movie, i see the posters and stuff everywhere here in France.

And tell Gabi i say hi too!! i miss her!and thank you for all the picture lol i enjoyed them, i will have to send you pictures, but sadly i forgot to bring the camera card with me!! ha ha well i love you, emails are short today cause we got work to do but i love you so much and ill talk to you next week!!!

Love Elder Russo

 

 Hey mom!!

Yes i had another great week, mostly because of general conference! I loved watching it, its so inspiring and helpful for me! and yeah i heard about the 18 and 19 year old rules, i think its great, lets hope they are mature and ready to go on a mission, because the missionaries here, mostly the sisters, are very very immature, they talked the whole conference and i was not happy, i had to ask them to be quite many times, the older in the mission i get and in life, the more i realize that as said in the bible, there is a time for all things, and man was it not the time to talk!lol but still the spirit was strong and i highly appreciated it! i woke up at 6 this morning to go to the church to be able to watch the Sunday afternoon conference, because we didn't get to watch it Sunday because it started at ten o clock, i think my favorite talk was Jeffry R Holland, on Sunday morning session, it was amazing!! i hope you all stayed awake lol!! i can just picture you all passed out during conference!!i wont lie i was very very sleepy when i was watching the priesthood part, mainly because it was in french, and the translation is very boring, no excitement in there voices, kinda sad that not everyone speaks English!

I do have one favor!! So i bought a suite jacket today for 50% percent off and i need to get the Pants to match, they are only 30 euros!! can you put money in my account before this wed so i can go buy them, they are on reserve for me! i thought i had enough but i went ice skating and then i finally received my garments in the mail so i have no0 money, and i just checked it no mom and im sorry but I'm in the red too, i forgot that when i get money out it charges me fees :/ well its up to you if you want to do it,i really need a new suit, i gave one away to a member in Albi who's pants were so ripped up and he was the one who worked for his family and was going to leave on mission so i gave it to him as a present, and my other suit has a huge rip in the butt lol (when i was cooking pizza ha ha) so I'm in need of a suit :) thank you mom for helping me and i hope you aren't mad at me!!

Well that's about it for me this week, it was really good, and really rough at the same time, a lot of trials this week, we have been harassed a lot lately and its taking a tole on me and elder call, hopefully we will be able to overcome this or avoid it!!

Well mom i love you so much, i cant wait till i get back and get all your neck kisses, surprisingly i miss them a little, ive never realized the importance of family so much till my mission, and on Sunday they talked about it too, you and dad did a great job for me and i am forever grateful for the environment that my heavenly Father put me in, he knew that you would do everything that is needed to teach me!and you did!! i love yo u so much and i hope you have a great week!! 

Love Elder Randy Russo ha ha!